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Victor Incerti

Victor Incerti

LPC Connecticut

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Therapist who centers your strengths

  • strengths focused
  • practical steps
  • listening first

About Victor

Victor Incerti is a licensed professional counselor who focuses on helping people manage stress, anxiety, addiction, depression, and trauma. He believes clients are the experts on their own lives and draws on their strengths to support lasting change. Taking the first step toward a more satisfying life can feel hard, and he aims to make that step feel manageable and supported.

With four decades of experience, Victor brings a steady and practical presence to sessions. He listens closely and follows each person’s pace rather than imposing a set agenda. Sessions often center on what matters most to the client and on small, doable steps forward.

Victor uses a mix of approaches tailored to the person in front of him. He favors client-centered work that prioritizes the client’s voice, while also using cognitive behavioral ideas and mindfulness practices to address thinking patterns and stress. He also draws on solution-focused and trauma-focused methods when they fit the situation.

He has worked with people facing a range of concerns, including issues linked to aging, caregiving strain, chronic pain and illness, sexual culture and kink, gender dysphoria, and struggles with isolation or shame. He also supports people dealing with family-of-origin questions, codependency, and recovery from drug and alcohol problems.

Sessions are offered in English and Victor accepts international clients. He practices in Connecticut and holds the credential CT LPC, which stands for Licensed Professional Counselor.

How therapeutic approaches shape online care

Victor works from a client-centered stance that keeps the person’s goals and perspective at the center of the work. This approach focuses on listening, reflecting, and helping clients clarify what they want to change or feel differently about. It is useful for people who want a collaborative, respectful way to talk through life challenges.

He also uses cognitive behavioral therapy in many cases to identify unhelpful thinking patterns and build concrete skills to manage anxiety, mood, and addictive behaviors. Mindfulness techniques are used to help people notice their thoughts and feelings without getting overwhelmed, which can help with stress, trauma reactions, and chronic pain.

Finding the right approach is part of the therapeutic process. Victor will work with each person to decide which methods fit their needs, goals, and preferences. That decision is a collaboration and can change over time as progress is made or goals shift.

The therapist’s profile does not list specific online session formats, so please confirm available options before booking. In general, online therapy can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy life, reduce travel time, and allow shorter check-ins when schedules are tight. It can also let people choose sessions that match their comfort with video, audio, or messaging if those options are offered.

Areas of expertise

Additional focus areas

Aging and geriatric issuesBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyControl issuesDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesFamily of origin issuesFatherhood issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMen's issuesMood disordersPanic disorder and panic attacksPhobiasPost-traumatic stressSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaTrichotillomaniaWorkplace issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Mindfulness TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

40+ years

Listed in

Connecticut

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of issues does Victor help with?

He helps people address stress, anxiety, addictions, trauma and abuse, depression, and LGBT related concerns. Other focuses include caregiver stress, chronic illness and pain, codependency, and issues around shame and isolation.

How would you describe his therapeutic style?

He practices a client-centered approach that follows the person’s lead and values their expertise. He also uses cognitive behavioral, mindfulness, solution-focused, and trauma-focused ideas when they match a client’s needs.

What is his professional background?

Victor has 40 years of professional experience working in counseling and related settings. He emphasizes listening and building on each person’s existing strengths.

Where is he based and what credential does he hold?

He is based in Connecticut and holds the credential CT LPC, which denotes Licensed Professional Counselor in that state.

Are sessions offered in other languages or to people outside the U.S.?

Sessions are offered in English and he does accept international clients.

What session formats are available?

The original profile does not specify session formats; please confirm current session options before booking so you know what formats are offered.

How does pricing work for sessions?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability, and sessions are arranged through a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with him?

Start by selecting the Start Therapy button and completing a short matching questionnaire, then schedule sessions according to the therapist’s availability.

Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If you are in danger, use the crisis numbers.

Victor Incerti

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