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Lynfa Wharam

Lynfa Wharam

NCPS United Kingdom

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Experienced integrative psychotherapeutic counsellor

  • Client-centred approach
  • Psychosexual therapy
  • Hypnotherapy offered

About Lynfa

Lynfa Wharam is a psychotherapeutic counsellor who helps people dealing with stress, anxiety, depression and relationship and intimacy difficulties. She also supports clients facing self-esteem struggles, addictions, grief, trauma and abuse, and challenges such as parenting, career changes and ADHD. Lynfa uses a warm, down-to-earth style that aims to make talking feel straightforward and non-judgemental.

Her background includes two decades working in international law firms in London and Essex before moving into counselling. She holds a qualification in psychotherapeutic counselling and hypnotherapy, and is listed with NCPS. Lynfa also practises psychosexual therapy, which covers sexual health and relationship concerns, and she offers this work to individuals and couples.

Lynfa takes an integrative approach. That means she draws on different methods to meet the needs of each person. She commonly uses Client-Centred Therapy alongside techniques from cognitive behavioural work, hypnotherapy, Jungian ideas and mindfulness practices.

Her manner is practical and open-minded. Sessions focus on listening, building understanding and finding ways forward that fit each person’s life. Lynfa volunteered early in the pandemic providing mental health support to NHS staff and care workers, and she brings that experience into how she supports people under pressure.

People can expect clear, simple conversation about what matters to them. The work is collaborative and paced to the individual, with attention to both immediate coping and longer-term change.

Using different therapeutic approaches in online work

Client-Centred Therapy focuses on listening and understanding the person as they are. The therapist offers acceptance and empathy to help someone speak honestly and find their own direction. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) looks at how thoughts, feelings and actions link together and uses practical exercises to change unhelpful patterns and manage anxiety or low mood. Hypnotherapy uses guided relaxation and focused attention to help people access different kinds of mental focus that can support habits, confidence and certain emotional issues.

Finding the right approach is part of the therapeutic process. The therapist will work with the client to agree what methods to try based on the person’s needs, goals and preferences. That choice is collaborative and may change as the work progresses.

The original biography does not list specific online session formats, so please confirm the current options before booking. Online work can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy life, reduce travel time and allow people to meet from different locations. It can also make shorter check-ins simpler to arrange and let someone choose whether to be on camera or use a different communication style to suit their day.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesIntimacy-related issuesSelf esteemDepression

Also works with

AddictionsFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseGriefEating disordersParenting issuesCareer difficultiesCoping with life changesCoachingADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesCaregiver issues and stressCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDivorce and separationDomestic violenceEating and food-related issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHoardingInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersNarcissismPanic disorder and panic attacksPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationTrichotillomaniaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)HypnotherapyJungian TherapyMindfulness TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused Therapy

Experience

7+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Lynfa help with?

She supports people with stress, anxiety, depression and relationship and intimacy issues, plus areas such as grief, addictions, trauma and parenting concerns.

What is her therapeutic style like?

Her style is warm, practical and open-minded, aiming to make conversations straightforward and non-judgemental while focusing on what will help day to day.

What experience does she bring to sessions?

She has seven years of counselling experience and previously worked for about 20 years in international law firms in London and Essex before moving into therapy work.

Which credentials and location are listed?

She holds a psychotherapeutic counselling qualification, training in hypnotherapy, psychosexual therapy, and is listed with NCPS. She is based in the United Kingdom.

Which languages and international work are supported?

Sessions are offered in English and she accepts international clients.

How are sessions delivered?

The original biography does not specify session formats, so please confirm current session options before booking.

How is cost handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I start working with her?

Use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to therapist availability.

Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If you are in danger, use the crisis numbers.

Lynfa Wharam

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