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Ingrid Koehler

Ingrid Koehler

BACP United Kingdom

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Calm, compassionate support for painful life moments

  • Client-centred care
  • Focus on relationships
  • Trauma-informed approach

About Ingrid

Ingrid Koehler is a counsellor who helps people facing stress, anxiety, relationship problems, trauma and grief. She supports those dealing with intimacy issues, eating concerns, anger, low self-esteem and major life changes. Ingrid presents as calm and compassionate and aims to make it easier to talk about painful things.

She uses a client-centred approach that keeps the person’s experience at the heart of sessions. Ingrid also draws on attachment-based ideas and trauma-focused ways of working to understand how past hurts affect present feelings and relationships. Sessions focus on listening, uncovering patterns, and finding practical steps to cope day to day.

Ingrid frames therapy as a process of making sense of what has happened and reconnecting with inner strengths. She invites people to reflect on their story and on feelings such as shame, guilt, rage, numbness or overwhelming sadness. The aim is to help people notice behaviours that no longer serve them and to try different ways of responding.

Her background includes 14 years of professional experience and prior work in nursing within cancer services and clinical trials in the NHS. Ingrid is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, BACP.

She offers a respectful, steady presence and tailors conversations to each person’s needs. For someone who feels stuck, hurt or unsure, she works to create space to notice patterns and to begin practical changes that fit everyday life.

How these approaches work online

Client-centred therapy focuses on the person’s own experience, giving space to talk and to be heard without judgement; it can help people who feel overwhelmed, stuck or unsure how to move forward. Attachment-based therapy looks at patterns in close relationships and how early bonds shape current needs and reactions, which can be useful for intimacy, trust and commitment issues. Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT) helps people pay attention to emotions in the moment and to reshape interactions in relationships, which is often helpful for partners and for people dealing with relationship hurt.

Finding the right approach is part of the work together. The therapist will listen to concerns, goals and preferences and then suggest ways of working. That choice is collaborative and may change as therapy progresses to fit what is most helpful.

Online therapy can make it easier to fit sessions into everyday life, such as arranging appointments around work, health appointments or family commitments. You may find shorter check-ins, audio-only conversations or sessions that avoid video useful for lower bandwidth or quieter surroundings; please confirm which formats are offered before booking. Many people find remote sessions allow steady continuity of care when travel or location are a challenge and support regular progress without lengthy journeys.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Also works with

Family conflictsIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersAnger managementSelf esteemDepressionCoping with life changesCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityCancerCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsDependent personalityDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceForgivenessGuilt and shameInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeNarcissismPost-traumatic stressSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyEmotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

14+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems can be addressed in sessions?

Ingrid supports people with stress, anxiety, depression, relationship and intimacy issues, trauma and abuse, grief, self-esteem and coping with life changes, among other concerns.

How would you describe her therapy style?

She works in a client-centred way, listening closely and tailoring conversations to each person. The style is warm, respectful and paced to the person’s comfort.

What experience does she bring to counselling?

Ingrid has 14 years of professional experience and long experience working in private practice since 2011.

What credentials and region are listed?

She is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, BACP, and practises in the United Kingdom.

Which languages are supported and can international clients access sessions?

Sessions are offered in English and Ingrid accepts international clients.

What session formats are available?

Please confirm current session options with the therapist before booking, as the original biography does not list specific formats.

How are fees and payment handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin if I want to work together?

Use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to the therapist’s availability.

Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If you are in danger, use the crisis numbers.

Ingrid Koehler

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