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Shamsa Aslam

Shamsa Aslam

BACP United Kingdom

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Person-centred counsellor for life stressors

  • Person-centred approach
  • Multilingual support
  • Grief and family focus

About Shamsa

Shamsa Aslam is a counsellor who supports people dealing with stress, anxiety, relationship strains, family tensions, grief and parenting pressures. She uses a person-centred way of working that keeps the client at the centre of each session. Conversations are paced to the individual and aimed at helping them feel heard and understood.

In sessions she focuses on creating an open space where thoughts and feelings can be shared without fear of judgement. That practical, steady approach helps people who are facing big life changes or daily pressures. She also talks things through with people coping with hoarding, jealousy, obsessive thoughts and paranoid feelings.

Shamsa has four years of experience working with people from different cultural backgrounds. She speaks English, Hindi, Punjabi and Urdu, which helps when language matters to the conversation. Her BACP credential is listed as BACP in professional records.

She encourages small first steps and works at a pace that suits each person. Conversations are shaped by what the client wants to focus on, whether that is managing anxiety, sorting family conflict, or processing loss. The aim is to help people gain clearer thinking and steadier day-to-day coping.

To begin, people are invited to use the site’s Start Therapy process to match with her and arrange sessions when convenient. The subscription used for sessions can be cancelled at any time.

How her person-centred approach works online

Shamsa uses a person-centred approach that focuses on listening, empathy and following the client’s lead. In practice she aims to create conversations where people can set the pace, name what matters to them, and work through strong emotions such as anxiety, grief or relationship stress.

The person-centred way is gentle and practical. It helps when someone needs a steady space to make sense of difficult feelings, talk about family or parenting worries, or address obsessive and jealous thoughts. The therapist’s multilingual ability can also help when language shapes how someone describes their experience.

Finding the right approach is part of the work, and she will collaborate with each person to decide what helps most. Together they look at goals, preferences and what feels manageable in day-to-day life, then try ways of working that match those needs.

Session formats are not listed in the biography, so please confirm available options before booking. Online work can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy schedule, reduce travel time, and allow shorter check-ins when needed. The focus remains on practical progress and on shaping sessions to fit a person's life.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsGriefParenting issues

Additional focus areas

HoardingJealousyMulticultural concernsObsessions, compulsions, and OCDParanoia

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered Therapy

Experience

4+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English, Hindi, Punjabi, Urdu

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does she help with?

She supports people coping with stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family difficulties, grief and parenting pressures. Additional areas of focus include hoarding, jealousy, obsessions and paranoid feelings.

What is her therapeutic style like?

She uses a person-centred approach that places the client at the centre of the work. Sessions are paced to the individual and aim to create a non-judgemental space for talking things through.

How much experience does she have?

She has four years of experience working with people from different cultural backgrounds. That experience informs her practical, conversational approach.

Where is she based and what credential does she hold?

She practises in the United Kingdom and holds the credential listed as BACP.

Which languages are available for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English, Hindi, Punjabi and Urdu to support people who prefer those languages.

Can international clients work with her?

Yes, she accepts international clients. Please ensure time differences and scheduling are considered when booking.

How are sessions paid for and what does it cost?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time. Exact fees can be found in the booking flow.

How do I begin if I want to work with her?

Use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If you are in danger, use the crisis numbers.

Shamsa Aslam

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