- Addiction support
- Relationship help
- Self-esteem work
About Paul
Dr. Paul Abney helps people who are ready to make changes but feel stuck. He focuses on practical steps that reduce shame, build confidence, and improve relationships. His style is calm and straightforward, and he aims to make conversations clear and useful for everyday life.
He is a Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, with 30 years of experience practicing in Texas. He draws on Client-Centered Therapy to create a respectful space where people can speak honestly about their concerns. That approach puts the person's experience at the center of sessions and guides how goals are set.
Dr. Abney also uses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Narrative Therapy tools when they fit a person's goals. These methods help identify unhelpful thinking patterns and rewrite the stories people tell about themselves. Sessions often include concrete strategies to manage panic, impulsivity, or overwhelming thoughts.
Common issues he addresses include addictions, relationship strain, self-esteem problems, and coping with life changes. He also works on attachment concerns, caregiver stress, chronic illness and pain, communication problems, and feelings of isolation.
People meet him for straightforward coaching alongside counseling work. He supports building practical habits, clearer communication, and stronger self-regard. To start, he asks questions about what matters most and then helps plan the next steps.
How his approaches translate to online work
Client-Centered Therapy focuses on listening and responding to a person's experience, which helps people feel understood and leads sessions at a comfortable pace. This approach is useful for building trust and exploring goals. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy targets the thoughts and behaviors that keep problems going, offering practical strategies for panic, impulses, and low self-esteem. It often includes homework and brief skills practice between meetings.Finding the right approach is part of the work together. The therapist will ask about goals, preferences, and daily routines to pick methods that fit. Decisions about techniques are collaborative and may change as progress is made.
Please confirm available session formats before booking since the profile does not list them. Online therapy can make it easier to fit sessions into a week, reduce travel time, and allow shorter check-ins when schedules are tight. It also lets people continue support when life changes make in-person meetings difficult, while still focusing on concrete tools and clear conversation.
Areas of expertise
Primary focus
Additional focus areas
Therapeutic approaches
Experience
30+ years
Listed in
Texas
Languages
English
Frequently asked questions
What kinds of problems does he address?
He helps people with addictions, relationship difficulties, low self esteem, and coping with life changes, plus related concerns like guilt, shame, and loneliness.
How would you describe his therapeutic style?
His style is client-centered and practical, focusing on clear conversation, empathy, and steps people can try between sessions.
What is his professional background?
He has 30 years of professional experience working as a counselor and has focused on issues such as motivation, confidence, and coping strategies.
Where is he based and what credential does he hold?
He practices in Texas and is a Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, in that state.
Can people who live outside the United States work with him?
International clients are accepted and sessions are offered in English.
What session formats are available?
Please confirm current session options before booking since the therapist's profile does not list specific formats.
How does payment work and what does it cost?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.
How do I begin working with him?
Click the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to the therapist's availability.
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