Therapist listings are provided by BetterHelp. We will earn a commission at no additional cost to you if you use our links to purchase.

Emilia Gonczar

Emilia Gonczar

BACP United Kingdom

Continue with Emilia

Experienced bilingual counsellor focusing on relationships

About Emilia

Emilia Gonczar is a counsellor with 11 years of clinical experience working in the United Kingdom. She holds a Master’s in Psychology from the University of Warsaw and is registered with the BACP. Emilia sees people in English and Polish and brings a background that includes work on psychiatric wards, with charities, and in private practice.

Her approach aims to help people understand themselves and their relationships. She pays attention to how past experiences link to present feelings and choices. Sessions combine talking about thoughts and feelings with awareness of bodily responses.

Emilia uses a mix of approaches including Client-Centred Therapy, attachment-based ideas and psychodynamic thinking. She also draws on solution-focused methods and EMDR where appropriate. This gives space for practical steps as well as deeper reflection.

People contact her about stress, anxiety, depression and parenting strains. She also supports those facing relationship and intimacy issues, grief, trauma and eating or body-image concerns. Additional areas include adoption and foster care, attachment issues, blended family and fatherhood matters.

Her style is collaborative and attentive. Emilia will listen, reflect back what she hears and help identify small, manageable changes. She encourages people to bring what matters most to them and to set goals that feel relevant to everyday life.

How these approaches translate to online therapy

Client-Centred Therapy focuses on listening, empathy and meeting people where they are. It helps those who need a non-judgemental space to explore feelings and make their own decisions. Attachment-Based Therapy looks at relationship patterns and how early bonds shape current connections, which can help with intimacy, attachment issues and family of origin concerns.

EMDR involves guided attention to reduce the emotional intensity of traumatic memories and can support recovery from past traumatic events. It is usually introduced carefully and explained step by step so people know what to expect.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will discuss goals, preferences and any practical needs, then together decide which methods to try. This is a collaborative process and can change as progress is made.

If you are considering online sessions, confirm the exact session formats available before booking. Many people find that online appointments fit more easily around work, childcare and travel. Online meetings can allow for shorter check-ins, easier scheduling across time zones and the convenience of staying in familiar surroundings while talking through difficult issues.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesParenting issuesSelf esteemDepression

Also works with

Family conflictsTrauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersAnger managementCareer difficultiesCoping with life changesCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

Adoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressCommitment issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDivorce and separationEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesFirst responder issuesGuilt and shameImmigration issuesInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesPostpartum depressionPregnancy and childbirthSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyEye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)Psychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapySomatic Therapy

Experience

11+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English, Polish

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does this counsellor help with?

She supports people with stress, anxiety, depression and parenting challenges. Other areas include relationship and intimacy issues, grief, trauma, eating concerns and body image.

How would you describe her therapy style?

She works in a collaborative, listening-focused way that links past experience to present life. Sessions mix reflection with practical steps to try between meetings.

What is her clinical background?

She has 11 years of experience, a Master’s in Psychology from the University of Warsaw, and a four-year psychoanalytical training. Her work history includes psychiatric wards, charity roles and private practice.

What credentials and location are listed?

She is registered with the BACP and practices in the United Kingdom.

Which languages are offered for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English and Polish.

Can people outside the UK work with her?

She accepts international clients. Confirm time zone and scheduling details when arranging sessions.

How does payment and cost work?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

What should I do to begin working with her?

Select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to therapist availability.

Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If you are in danger, use the crisis numbers.

Emilia Gonczar

Continue with Emilia